THE BLOG

There was a time when I believed that explaining my perspective was the key to resolving conflicts with my partner, Jeni. Whenever she shared her feelings, I would often respond with an explanation...

In all seriousness, it’s a big deal when the idea of divorce starts to become more and more appealing. 

The thought of escaping your relationship– running away, finding...

There are 5 stages to love, most couples only make it to #3 and they either fizzle out or stay stuck there. 

Stage 1 - Falling In Love Stage -   The honeymoon phase as...

If you find yourself struggling to talk about certain issues with your partner, then tune in for this one! Here, I'll share 4 simple strategies you can use to communicate more effectively, avoid...

Expressing love to one another is important every and any day of the year, but fancy dinners, flowers, and chocolate-covered strawberries can get old quickly. Novelty, in fact, is one of the...

Most people believe that being in love with your partner is just something that happens– a product of the connection and healthy relationship dynamics you have, and a result of how your...

Couples go to couples therapy with a lot of pain and a lot of hope that talking with a therapist about their problems is going to help them finally get past their struggles so that they can feel...

Couples therapy is the go-to choice for most couples who are struggling in their relationship, but I'm not so sure it should be. There are some drawbacks with the couples therapy approach, and...

No one likes to fight with their partner, right? Well, except maybe for that one part of you that believes that fighting (also known as pursuing, standing up for, trying to talk to or fix, etc.) is...

Valentine’s Day can be a great reminder to up your game and be an even better partner to your beloved, but in truth, every day is good day to bring more love into your relationship(s). Taking...

Why I’m No Longer Doing Couples Therapy

I spent over a decade learning how to become a relationship therapist, but in 2020, I gave it up. I walked away from both my identity and...

If you’ve been following our work at all, you know that we at PowerfuLove are all about owning our sh*t– taking personal responsibility and accountability for our experiences and for...