In all seriousness, it’s a big deal when the idea of divorce starts to become more and more appealing. 

The thought of escaping your relationship– running away, finding something… someONE… better starts to become a fantasy that plays through your mind time and again. 

Especially when you and your spouse get into another argument. 

When you find yourself crying alone again.

When your body is screaming desperately for your partner just to show up and hold you, apologize for the ways they hurt you, and show care and compassion for your experience… only to never come.

Or when you keep hoping that this time things will be different, like they said they would be… but then they aren’t… and it hurts worse for the broken promise and the false hope. 

It starts to feel like leaving and starting over would be easier, would feel better, than staying and trying to make this work. 

But if you’re like I was during that dark and painful time, you know that you don’t actually want to leave. 

What you REALLY want is for things to get better. For your partner to “get it,” to make some changes in how they show up for you. You want communication to be easier. You want to stop fighting and start really loving each other again. You want connection, intimacy, safety, and a partner you can count on. You want to feel energized and alive again, so you can focus on other things that matter (like the business you’ve been neglecting). 

You don't want to lose your marriage, but you DO want to be happy and satisfied in it. 

And you deserve all of those things. 

And as impossible as it may seem from where you are right now, I want you to know that it IS possible to have all those things… without starting over. 

But you have to know the way… and it’s actually much more simple than you’d think. 

And I want to teach it to you– for FREE. It’s a simple, 3-step process that I call the PowerfuLove Method. 

And all you have to do to learn it (and have it personally tailored to your unique relationship situation) is find about 60 minutes of time to get on a no-pressure call with me!

Schedule your call with us here!

We call these Relationship Empowerment calls, and below are the 3 Steps of the PowerfuLove Method we're going to map out. In our call, I will show you how you can: 

1. Disarm The Defensiveness that you so often receive from your spouse. (So you can actually communicate and connect)

2. Get your spouse to Treat You Like You Matter. (So you can feel loved and cared about again)

3. Motivate and inspire your spouse to Step up and Level Up. (So you can have a real partner in this life)

So much better awaits you, my friend. Don't give up on your marriage. Let me help you clarify the path ahead so you can finally bridge the gap between where you've been and where you want to go.

Here’s that link again!

Looking forward to seeing you on the call!

Love powerfully,

Jeni

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Dr. Jeni (she/they) & Calvin (he/him)

PowerfuLove Relationships

P.S. Or you could just keep trying to figure this out on your own, losing precious time, energy, and life to the drain of the disconnection and unhappiness in your relationship… but I don’t recommend that! It’ll be much faster and easier to just book a call and let us help you clarify the path!