It's Time To Reset And Rebuild

The way things have been going hasn't been working, or something big has changed... and you know your relationship can't continue the way it currently is. But you also know you don't want to lose your partner. This means it's time for a relationship reset... Repair and strengthen the foundation of your love and start to rebuild a your relationship 2.0.

We're In!

About the Relationship Reset Intensive

Our 12-week Relationship Reset Intensive is designed to help you and your partner shift out of the patterns and problems that have been pulling you apart, and reset the energy and direction of your relationship toward one of greater safety, accountability, partnership, connection, and conscious love.

We built this program as an intensive, because we know that you're ready for your relationship to be better, like, yesterday. Our goal is to help you give your relationship the attention, care, and new "materials" it needs to strengthen and heal your foundation and begin to rebuild a new and improved version of your partnership. This intensive will provide you with the information and support you need to get to the root of what's not working and empower you with the tools to create healing, growth, and lasting change. With a combination of both group individual calls and private couple-to-couple calls, all of our most essential courses and curriculum, and our growing community of couples like yourself, these 3-months will help you create massive transformation, quickly!

I'm Interested!

Why Do We Need To "Reset" Our Relationship?

You're Not Happy

You're hurting, disconnected, unsatisfied, and not feeling loved the way you want and deserve. And though you've tried to make things better, they're not. And while you know you don't want to lose your partner, break up your family, or start all the way over... you also don't know how to make things better and don't know how long you can stay like this.

But you don't need to stay in an unhappy relationship, and you don't need a new partner. You just need a relationship reset, to start again and consciously create something better.

You've Gotten Stuck

Over time, you and your partner have developed patterns... patterns of thinking, communicating, fighting, interacting, intimacy, and so on. Some of those patterns aren't working for you. You're nervous system has learned that it's not safe to connect, engage, or bring up those issues. You get easily triggered or upset by your partner, and they by you. You start to build resentment and find that that love, desire, and enjoyment are fading away. And nothing you've tried has helped things get better.

You're stuck, and you need a new way. This program teaches you that way and offers you the support you'll need to finally change things for the better.

You Can't Go Back

As much as you may want to, you can't go back... only forward. So while you're not where you want to be in this relationship, you also can't backtrack to how things "used to be." Things have changed, and now the only way out is forward and through. And while going forward still includes healing, repairing, and letting go of the past, it does not stay there. You can't "fix" your relationship, but you CAN reset and rebuild a relationship 2.0 that is stronger, more conscious and loving, and more joyful and fulfilling than it ever was before.

This program is where you start.

I'm Ready To Reset

Don't Start Over... Start Anew

What you have been doing hasn't been working, but if you don't change things, things don't change... except to get worse. Too many relationships end unnecessarily. You don't need a new partner. You need a new approach... a better and more effective approach... so you can heal your relationship, reconnect with your partner, and consciously create a future that feels aligned, authentic, joyful, and fulfilling to you both. Reset, begin again, start anew. Create your love 2.0.

I Want Love 2.0

What You'll Get In The Relationship Reset Intensive

(Too many things to put into one block, so we had to put it into an accordion! Expand to see them all!)

Coaching Support For You, Your Partner, AND Your Relationship

Weekly Group Coaching Calls For YOU
- Because you each need healing, growth, and support-- individually AND as a couple. But the change has to start with you. And that's where your real power to change things is-- both in how you show up, engage, and respond in your 50% of the relationship, AND how you influence your partner's 50% as well.
- Each of you will work individually with your own coach (one with Jeni, the other with Cal) over the course of the 12 weeks.
- Your group coaching calls are separate, so you have personal attention and safe space to get support around YOUR experience in the relationship and learn what YOU can do to more effectively support healing, growth, and change.
- Jeni's coaching calls are currently Thursdays at 4:30pm Pacific
- Cal's coaching calls are currently Wednesdays at 5:30 Pacific
Ongoing Coaching Feedback & Support Between Sessions
- You and your partner will get access to private coaching circles in our PowerfuLove community. These inner circles are only available to your coach and the partners in your coaching group.
- Ask questions, present issues, and get support from your coach and the community members you're most connected to in a private, safe, and supportive context.
- Message and engage whenever you need to-- we'll get back within 24 hours, and usually sooner. (Butand we've found it's helpful to your nervous system just to know it's out there and that someone will be there to help you through it soon!)
- The ability to Direct Message your coach with issues or questions you'd prefer not to post publicly.
Monthly Private Couple-To-Couple Coaching Call

Every 4th week, Cal and Jeni will meet with you and your partner for a private couple-to-couple call.
Here, we support you two in moving past stuck points, finding solutions, communicating more effectively, and strengthening your relationship.
The presence of both coaches helps to create greater safety and balance in the room, as each of you has your "person" there to help inform, advocate, translate, and offer support for you and your relationship.

Proven Transformational Courses

The Benefits Of Community

A New Beginning For Your Relationship

Uncover What Happened And Why
- Our minds always want to understand. We want to know why and how things happened... especially when they were painful. Having this knowledge and understanding helps us to not only make sense of the world, but also to have more ability and "control" within it, and so we can prevent the painful things from happening again.
Become Empowered With New Options So You Can Create The Relationship Of Your Dreams
- With understanding comes choice, and with choice comes power. When you can consciously and deliberately choose how to respond in your relationship, you can consciously and deliberately influence the direction things go.
- You are a powerful creator within your life, but unless you are consciously choosing what to create, you're just operating on auto-pilot. And that's where you're stuck.
- Learn the skills and tools to get unstuck again. This program isn't just about making your relationship feel better now. It's about rebuilding our relationship from the ground up, so that you have the foundations, the tools, and the experience to keep maintaining, repairing, reinforcing it, and improving it... so that nothing that life throws at you has the potential to destroy your relationship "home" again.
Heal And Release Old Injuries And Resentments

It's time to move past and let go of the things that are no longer serving you in your relationship. This doesn't mean forgetting or excusing them... it means learning from them, healing from them, finding their gifts, and allowing the hard and painful experiences to become catalysts for growth, development, and improvements within yourself and your relationship.
Get support in identifying and expressing your feelings, helping your partner to hear, see, and truly understand your experience.
Experience the relief of seeing your partner take accountability and engage in meaningful and sincere repair.

Become The Best Version Of Yourself
- Step into alignment and authenticity. Find your voice and your power.
- Master your nervous system and reactivity. Choose your responses from a place of consciousness, intentionality, and love.
- Engage in your own healing and personal growth journey. Learn how to love yourself, forgive yourself, and treat all parts of you with kindness, compassion, and love and support they deserve.
- Love better. Communicate better. Listen better. Show up more powerfully. Connect more deeply. Build habits and practices that nurture your relationship, help your partner feel happy, loved, and safe, and that represent the kind of person and partner you most want to be.
Transform Your Relationship
- Rekindle the fondness, admiration, love, and passion between you and your partner.
- Repair and fortify the foundations of safety and trust.
- Learn how to effectively navigate disagreements and differences, resolve long-standing issues, communicate effectively, and get back into connection and harmony after you've disconnected.
- Consciously co-create the partnership and love that nourishes, supports, and enriches you both.
- Move forward into the future with the skills, tools, and experiences you need to help you keep building, leveling up, and feeling confident and strong in your relationship.

What's My Next Step?

How Do I Know This Will Work?

Technically, you don't. There are no gaurantees on anything in life, and we won't try to convince you of anything different. That said, we KNOW, have seen, and have experienced ourselves the transformational power of our programs and processes. So, if you are willing to show up and step up, to engage and apply, and to use the resources you are given, we are CONFIDENT that you will experience profound growth and healing that will benefit you, your relationship(s), and your future (even if your partner isn't participating!)

Check out this (kind of) brief video from Dr. Jeni, as she explains the "Three C's"-- Qualities we have come to find are essential to and predictive of folx success in our programs.

I Have The 3 C's!

Here's What Sets Us Apart

First of all, WE are different (and proudly so!), and our authenticity and lived experiences shine through.

But aside from that... a few important things set the PowerfuLove programs apart from other supports or solutions out there.

We support you individually AND as a couple. Each of you has your own experience-- your own thoughts, feelings, needs, and healing/growth journeys. Your partnership is made of both of you, and so both of you need individual time, space, attention, healing, and support. But your relationship is also more than the sum of its parts-- it's an entity of it's own, and so your partnership itself also needs time, space, attention, healing, and support! We've ensured that our coaching support, classes, integration exercises, AND community experience attend to both the individual and the relationship. It's the best of all worlds... and it works!
You get BOTH of us. Cal and Jeni work together as a team in support of your team. While each of you will be assigned an individual coach to work with, we are constantly communicating behind the scenes to keep one another informed and updated about each of you and how things are going. And when we work with you as a couple, we are both there with both of you. This means you have two minds, two perspectives, two people advocating for both you and your relationship. You get a balance of masculine and feminine energies, of pursue and withdraw nervous systems, of black and white, of neurodivergence and neurotypicality, of traditional relationship training and hard-won personal growth and authenticity... and so much more. (Turns out, we are pretty different... very Yin and Yang over here!)
The courses and curriculum are GOLD! We've created a powerful and transformational core program that has proven itself time and again in our work with couples. We have been blown away by the quick and profound healing and growth that we see happen when partners go through our curriculum and classes. We've taken the most relevant and important information and insights from leading-edge relationship psychology, mindset, neuroscience, personal growth, and spirituality and put it together in engaging and easy-to-understand ways so that your learning process can not only be transformational, but also enjoyable.
We don't stop at learning and talking. We know that real change comes from doing. This is why in both our coaching and our courses, we invite you to engage in powerful action steps and integration exercises. We want to help you build momentum and keep it, so that you not only stop the downward spiral in your relationship, but then create an upward spiral that LASTS!
Community is essential. Too often, we keep our relationship struggles quiet. No one wants to "air their dirty laundry." There's an element of shame or embarrassment... a fear of being judged... and the perception that everyone else has it better. Trust us... more people than not are struggling in their relationships! You're not alone, but thinking and feeling alone in our struggles, and their solutions, benefits no one. We all benefit from connection and community. From solidarity and support. From encouragement and accountability. We learn from one another, teach one another, and better each other's lives and relationships by opening up to the power of community.

Let's Get Started!

Your Instructors

Dr. Jeni Wahlig & Calvin Osili

PowerfuLove Coaches

Creators of PowerfuLove relationship coaching- a revolutionary approach to helping trailblazing* couples become empowered to heal, improve, strengthen, and expand the love in their relationships so they can consciously create fulfilling and unshakeable partnerships, live the fullest expression of themselves, and make a positive impact in their family and in the world.

With both Masters and Doctoral degrees in Couple and Family Therapy, and over a decade as a practicing couples therapist and supervisor, Jeni has become an expert on relationships. Combining her knowledge and experience with Calvin’s passion for empowering others to challenge their programming and dare to live authentically, Jeni and Calvin offer critically conscious relationship education, high-level support, love-based accountability, and powerful integration exercises that are creating unbelievable transformation in the folx who work with them.

Those who have enrolled in PowerfuLove’s coaching programs and utilized the skills and tools that Jeni and Calvin teach have brought their relationship back from the brinks of divorce, developed unshakable confidence in their ability to navigate any of life’s challenges, let go of long-held injuries and resentments, and rediscovered connection, intimacy, and love that they’d feared was lost forever.

Jeni and Calvin are committed to co-creating a relationship (r)Evolution whereby we all come to engage in relationships with greater consciousness, love, authenticity, and Empowered Accountability

_{*Trailblazer: Any couple who is different, feels different, or dares to live differently, authentically, and in courageous pursuit of their dreams or purpose in the world, who is committed to becoming the best version of themselves and learning more conscious and powerful ways to love, for the betterment of their lives, the world, and future generations.}