Don't Give Up. You CAN Save Your Relationship.

We know you're hurting, that your relationship is taking a toll on you, and that you want and deserve better. Though you may be thinking about leaving, if you know that what you'd REALLY prefer is for your current relationship to work out and feel better, then WE know that there IS a way to get there. Let us help you come back from the brink of despair, dissolution, or divorce, so you can reconnect with the hope, the relief, the safety, and the love that you have been missing.

We're In!

About the Back From The Brink High-Touch Intensive

Our signature coaching program, and our highest level of support. In this 12 week high-touch intensive program, we work closely with you and your partner to support each of you, both individually and together, in beginning to heal your relationship, rebuilding the foundation, and bringing it back from the brink of divorce or dissolution.

We've poured absolutely everything we can think of into this program to help ensure that you and your partner get all of the tools and resources, and the highest level of support you need to turn things around, keep your family together, and finally start feel safer, happier, and loved in your relationship again. In this program, we walk alongside you every step of the way down our proven path for healing and transformation, offering highly individualized, hands-on, high-touch support to help you not only save your relationship, but position yourselves for the conscious creation of a partnership that is better than it has ever been.

I'm Interested!

How Do We Even Come Back From This?

Understand How You Got Here

By understanding the circumstances, choices, experiences, and reactions that brought you to this painful place, you empower yourself with the ability not only to move away from it, but also to ensure it doesn't repeat.

We will help you get to the root of the problems, so you can heal and change what is really needed. Understanding what happened and why is an important part of the journey, and we will help you figure that out.

Learn & Become The Best Version Of You

Your relationship is a product of both you and your partner, so turning things around and creating something better in your relationship takes change within each of you.

Most people don't know how to do this well. We aren't taught the relationship skills, nor even the personal nervous system management skills we need to effectively navigate the painful and challenging experiences that our relationships so often bring. But you CAN learn, and we will teach you the proven frameworks, tools, and skills to ensure that the changes you need can happen. Plus, we will support you in practicing, applying, and succeeding in the becoming that your relationship challenges are inviting you into.

Heal And Grow Within Yourself & Your Relationship

Although you can do nothing to change the past, nor can you "go back" to the way things were... moving forward and rebuilding a better relationship must necessitates a healing journey. Part of that is healing and growth within yourself, and part of that is healing and growth within your partnership.

This process is not always easy... sometimes it's downright painful. Butand... it's SO worth the journey, and with us right by your side, you won't be doing it it alone.

I'm Want To Come Back

Unfortunately, It Won't Get Better On Its Own

If you're like most couples, you've been "dealing" with your unhappy, struggling relationship for a long time already. And chances are, that while you may have experienced some periods of improvement, they haven't lasted, and the general trend is that things keep feeling worse. This is because each repeat of the same fight, injury, pattern, or unresolved issues erodes the good feelings, connection, and sense of safety and fulfillment you've had. And the worse you feel about your partner and your relationship, the harder it is to connect, have fun, trust, or be intimate. And the less you have of those positive experiences, the more you're likely to have the negative ones-- quick triggers and reactivity, defensiveness, frustration, and even a growing dislike for your partner.

You're caught in the downward spiral, and you need something to interrupt that spiral so that it can stop going down. And after that, you need to learn how to do things differently in your relationship so you can not only prevent things from going down again, but also (and perhaps more importantly), start turning things around in the other direction-- upward. Better. That's what our Back From The Brink high-touch intensive will help you do.

I'm Ready To Turn This Around

Real Talk About The Journey Ahead

Healing and transforming a relationship that's already at the brink of divorce or dissolution is 100% possible (we've done it ourselves, and have helped many other couples do the same!), butand... it's not a journey for the faint of heart. There is likely a lot of hurt, resentment, and frustration built up. There may be major injuries or unexpected and unwanted changes to face. You probably don't feel particularly safe talking with your partner about the struggles or injuries you've experienced, because you've learned that it doesn't go well and results in things feeling worse, not better. So the result is that your nervous system has become very sensitive to your partner and whatever issues exist between you two... thus making the journey feel like a very scary, uncertain, vulnerable, and potentially painful one.

Thankfully, with the right guidance, support, and tools, it doesn't have to be so hard or painful. That's why we're here, why we've created this program. Yet for as much as we give, we know that it will only go so far unless you're bringing some things to the table.

We call them the "3 C's." Watch this (kind of) short video as Dr. Jeni explains, so that you can decide if you've got what it takes to make this journey.

I Have The 3 C's!

What You'll Get In The Back From The Brink High-Touch Intensive

(Too many things to put into one block, so we had to put it into an accordion! Expand to see them all!)

High-Touch Coaching Support

Individual Coaching Calls For YOU
- Nine (9) 1:1 Coaching calls (3 per month) that are a full 60 minutes (and occasionally a bit longer if needed. We carve out extra time and space to show up for our high-touch clients)
- Scheduled with your personal coach (either Calvin or Jeni) at a time and day that work for you. Just you and your coach, and all of the care, attention, and support you deserve.
- Individual focus because your part of this work includes your own, personal, healing, growth, and support. And this, of course, is where your real power to create change things is-- both in how you show up, engage, and respond in your 50% of the relationship, AND how you influence your partner's 50% as well.
- Each coaching call is recorded, with your own private access to it should you desire.
- We follow up with a summary email of the highlights and takeaways and offer powerful action and integration steps for you to take between sessions so that you can keep moving the needle forward.
Individual Coaching Calls For YOUR PARTNER (with a different coach!)
- Nine (9) 1:1 Coaching calls (3 per month) that are a full 60 minutes (and occasionally a bit longer if needed. We carve out extra time and space to show up for our high-touch clients)
- Scheduled with their personal coach (either Calvin or Jeni, whomever you DON'T have) at a time and day that work for them. Just them and their coach, and all of the care, attention, and support you deserve.
- Individual focus because THEIR part of this work includes their own, personal, healing, growth, and support. And this, of course, is where their real power (and responsibility) to create change things is-- both in how you show up, engage, and respond in your 50% of the relationship, AND how you influence your partner's 50% as well.
Monthly Private Couple-To-Couple Coaching Call
- Every 4th week, Cal and Jeni will meet with you and your partner for a private couple-to-couple call. (Three (3) Total).
- Here, we support you two in moving past stuck points, finding solutions, communicating more effectively, and strengthening your relationship.
- The presence of both coaches helps to create greater safety and balance in the room, as each of you has your "person" there to help inform, advocate, translate, and offer support for you and your relationship.
High-Touch, Private & Personalized Coaching Feedback & Support Between Sessions
- You and your partner will get access to private messaging with your personal coach through a mobile messaging platform. This means you can text us whenever you need to, with whatever is going on.
- Ask questions, present issues, and get support from your coach when you need it most.
- Message and engage whenever you need to-- we'll get back within 24 hours, and usually sooner. (Butand we've found it's helpful to your nervous system just to know it's out there and that someone will be there to help you through it soon!)
Extra "Booster" Calls
- Both you AND your partner can schedule two (2) additional 30-minute coaching calls with your personal coach to help boost you through particularly difficult weeks, or to support you in diving deeper into an area that needs more care and attention.

Proven Transformational Courses

The Benefits Of Community

A New Beginning For Your Relationship

Uncover What Happened And Why
- Our minds always want to understand. We want to know why and how things happened... especially when they were painful. Having this knowledge and understanding helps us to not only make sense of the world, but also to have more ability and "control" within it, and so we can prevent the painful things from happening again.
Become Empowered With New Options So You Can Create The Relationship Of Your Dreams
- With understanding comes choice, and with choice comes power. When you can consciously and deliberately choose how to respond in your relationship, you can consciously and deliberately influence the direction things go.
- You are a powerful creator within your life, but unless you are consciously choosing what to create, you're just operating on auto-pilot. And that's where you're stuck.
- Learn the skills and tools to get unstuck again. This program isn't just about making your relationship feel better now. It's about rebuilding our relationship from the ground up, so that you have the foundations, the tools, and the experience to keep maintaining, repairing, reinforcing it, and improving it... so that nothing that life throws at you has the potential to destroy your relationship "home" again.
Heal And Release Old Injuries And Resentments

It's time to move past and let go of the things that are no longer serving you in your relationship. This doesn't mean forgetting or excusing them... it means learning from them, healing from them, finding their gifts, and allowing the hard and painful experiences to become catalysts for growth, development, and improvements within yourself and your relationship.
Get support in identifying and expressing your feelings, helping your partner to hear, see, and truly understand your experience.
Experience the relief of seeing your partner take accountability and engage in meaningful and sincere repair.

Become The Best Version Of Yourself
- Step into alignment and authenticity. Find your voice and your power.
- Master your nervous system and reactivity. Choose your responses from a place of consciousness, intentionality, and love.
- Engage in your own healing and personal growth journey. Learn how to love yourself, forgive yourself, and treat all parts of you with kindness, compassion, and love and support they deserve.
- Love better. Communicate better. Listen better. Show up more powerfully. Connect more deeply. Build habits and practices that nurture your relationship, help your partner feel happy, loved, and safe, and that represent the kind of person and partner you most want to be.
Transform Your Relationship
- Rekindle the fondness, admiration, love, and passion between you and your partner.
- Repair and fortify the foundations of safety and trust.
- Learn how to effectively navigate disagreements and differences, resolve long-standing issues, communicate effectively, and get back into connection and harmony after you've disconnected.
- Consciously co-create the partnership and love that nourishes, supports, and enriches you both.
- Move forward into the future with the skills, tools, and experiences you need to help you keep building, leveling up, and feeling confident and strong in your relationship.

What's My Next Step?

Here's What Sets Us Apart

First of all, WE are different (and proudly so!), and our authenticity and lived experiences shine through.

But aside from that... a few important things set the PowerfuLove programs apart from other supports or solutions out there.

We support you individually AND as a couple. Each of you has your own experience-- your own thoughts, feelings, needs, and healing/growth journeys. Your partnership is made of both of you, and so both of you need individual time, space, attention, healing, and support. But your relationship is also more than the sum of its parts-- it's an entity of it's own, and so your partnership itself also needs time, space, attention, healing, and support! We've ensured that our coaching support, classes, integration exercises, AND community experience attend to both the individual and the relationship. It's the best of all worlds... and it works!
You get BOTH of us. Cal and Jeni work together as a team in support of your team. While each of you will be assigned an individual coach to work with, we are constantly communicating behind the scenes to keep one another informed and updated about each of you and how things are going. And when we work with you as a couple, we are both there with both of you. This means you have two minds, two perspectives, two people advocating for both you and your relationship. You get a balance of masculine and feminine energies, of pursue and withdraw nervous systems, of black and white, of neurodivergence and neurotypicality, of traditional relationship training and hard-won personal growth and authenticity... and so much more. (Turns out, we are pretty different... very Yin and Yang over here!)
The courses and curriculum are GOLD! We've created a powerful and transformational core program that has proven itself time and again in our work with couples. We have been blown away by the quick and profound healing and growth that we see happen when partners go through our curriculum and classes. We've taken the most relevant and important information and insights from leading-edge relationship psychology, mindset, neuroscience, personal growth, and spirituality and put it together in engaging and easy-to-understand ways so that your learning process can not only be transformational, but also enjoyable.
We don't stop at learning and talking. We know that real change comes from doing. This is why in both our coaching and our courses, we invite you to engage in powerful action steps and integration exercises. We want to help you build momentum and keep it, so that you not only stop the downward spiral in your relationship, but then create an upward spiral that LASTS!
Community is essential. Too often, we keep our relationship struggles quiet. No one wants to "air their dirty laundry." There's an element of shame or embarrassment... a fear of being judged... and the perception that everyone else has it better. Trust us... more people than not are struggling in their relationships! You're not alone, but thinking and feeling alone in our struggles, and their solutions, benefits no one. We all benefit from connection and community. From solidarity and support. From encouragement and accountability. We learn from one another, teach one another, and better each other's lives and relationships by opening up to the power of community.

Let's Get Started!

Your Instructors

Dr. Jeni Wahlig & Calvin Osili

PowerfuLove Coaches

Creators of PowerfuLove relationship coaching- a revolutionary approach to helping trailblazing* couples become empowered to heal, improve, strengthen, and expand the love in their relationships so they can consciously create fulfilling and unshakeable partnerships, live the fullest expression of themselves, and make a positive impact in their family and in the world.

With both Masters and Doctoral degrees in Couple and Family Therapy, and over a decade as a practicing couples therapist and supervisor, Jeni has become an expert on relationships. Combining her knowledge and experience with Calvin’s passion for empowering others to challenge their programming and dare to live authentically, Jeni and Calvin offer critically conscious relationship education, high-level support, love-based accountability, and powerful integration exercises that are creating unbelievable transformation in the folx who work with them.

Those who have enrolled in PowerfuLove’s coaching programs and utilized the skills and tools that Jeni and Calvin teach have brought their relationship back from the brinks of divorce, developed unshakable confidence in their ability to navigate any of life’s challenges, let go of long-held injuries and resentments, and rediscovered connection, intimacy, and love that they’d feared was lost forever.

Jeni and Calvin are committed to co-creating a relationship (r)Evolution whereby we all come to engage in relationships with greater consciousness, love, authenticity, and Empowered Accountability

_{*Trailblazer: Any couple who is different, feels different, or dares to live differently, authentically, and in courageous pursuit of their dreams or purpose in the world, who is committed to becoming the best version of themselves and learning more conscious and powerful ways to love, for the betterment of their lives, the world, and future generations.}