"How Did We Get Here?"

It didn’t start out this way.

In the beginning, there was love, connection, hope, and the excitement of finding someone who you knew you wanted to share life with… 

But then something happened.

Maybe it was a slow progression…

Issue left unresolved, differences and disagreements you can’t get past, communication struggles, and the compounding of wounds from fights unrepaired...

Or maybe it was an unexpected event or transition…

A traumatic loss, betrayal, or shift in identity… and now you’re not sure who your partner is anymore, who YOU are, or how can ever go back, move past, heal from, or rebuild. 

So you find yourself in a place of pain and frustration, confusion and uncertainty, drain and defeat.

Tired of moving through your days heavy, lonely, and heartbroken from the disconnection and hurt. 

Tired of managing a headspace that's consumed by what’s been happening, distracted from the other things in life that matter to you.

And you’ve probably fought hard to try to make things better.

You’ve tried talking about it, fighting about it, holding it in. Maybe you’ve read books, listened to podcasts, or gone on a retreat. Maybe you’ve even tried therapy…

Still, nothing has gotten better.

And while there’s a part of you that thinks about leaving, in your heart of hearts…

You KNOW you don’t want to lose this relationship.. You just want things to be better.

But you don’t know how, and you’re running out of energy, ideas, and hope.

We can help.

But you need to know the TRUTH about what it takes

You've spent a long time stuck in these painful patterns. Too long.

If you're like most couples, you've already tried a few things to make your relationship better, but they haven't worked... or at least not as well as you wanted them to. 

You're not alone. Most of the couples we see have been stuck in some degree of struggle for 7 years or more!

After so much time, real, lasting change can begin to feel impossible. 

Let us again assure you-- it's not!

But it does take MORE than what most people try, (and believe it or not, you have NOT tried everything yet!)

Going from disconnected, unhappy, and hurting to happily ever after is not a journey for the faint of heart, and it doesn't happen overnight.

(Though, you'd be surprised at how quickly things can start to improve!)

Transforming your relationship takes commitment, courage, and the willingness to learn, grow, and step into YOUR next level of self. 

Yes, YOUR next level.

Certainly, your partner has work to do too, but focusing on what they need to change is ineffective at best, and, more often than not, makes things worse.

The truth is, it only takes ONE person to change a relationship, but when BOTH of you are doing the work of improving your own part of what hasn't been working-- with true commitment, courage, and willingness to grow-- THAT is when the magic happens. 

If you think you've got what it takes, and you're willing to give your all to save your relationship, then we want to show up to help make it happen. 

Check out the (kind of) brief video below to hear Dr. Jeni share about the "3 C's"- qualities that our most successful partners have.

Who we work with...

We don't work with just anyone; we know it's important to find the right "fit". 

We want the time, energy, and money you spend in any work with us to be more than worth the investment. 

So here are the kind of folx we vibe with best...

• Queer, Trans/Gender Diverse, and Polyam/CNM folx-- We are dedicated to being a source of support that is safe, affirming, and knowledgeable of these unique experiences and relationship dynamics
• Trailblazers-- folx who are committed to carving their own path, being in full alignment with their Truth, who dare to go after their dreams, and who desire to live their fullest and most joyful expressions of Self. 
• Rebels and counter-culture folx-- people who are courageous enough to pursue radical authenticity, live outside of the box, challenge norms, and march to the beat of their own drum. 
• Mission-driven entrepreneurs, helpers, healers, spiritual seekers, light-workers, soulmates, and twin-flames. We see you, we feel you, we are you.
• Parents who deeply desire to show their children how to do love and relationships far better than they'd ever been taught themselves.
• ANY person or couple committed to personal growth and accountability-- You, who are willing to do the work to center in love and consciousness so that you can build an energizing, fulfilling, authentic partnership that lasts. 

The identities and descriptions above are also parts of who WE are and how we identify. We get these experiences and the unique strengths, struggles, and relationship dynamics that can arise for folx within these identities. It is important for us to be visible as representatives and resources to our communities, to own who we are, and to reflect to you that you are in good, safe company with us. 

We model what's possible, and we GET the unique struggles for folx in these intersections.

If any of these sounds like you, then you've found your people!